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De Facto Partner Visa Australia – The Definitive Guide by Nilesh Nandan

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Introduction: Why This Guide Exists

After decades of helping thousands of couples apply for partner visas — across every relationship type, background, and visa complication — I’ve learned one hard truth: most people don’t fully understand what they’re walking into. And that’s not their fault. The process is complex, the stakes are high, and the rules aren’t always clear. But getting it wrong can cost more than just time and money. It can cost your future together.

This guide is for couples who are trying to stay together in Australia through the de facto partner visa process. Whether you’re same-sex or opposite-sex, married or unmarried, living together or long distance — this is your roadmap. It’s written in plain English and built on more than 25 years of experience advising on real cases, in real-life situations.

We’ll cover the key questions you probably already have — and more importantly, I’ll answer the ones you didn’t even know to ask.

I want this to be the most accurate, up-to-date, and useful guide available. So if you come across anything in this article that needs clarification or updating, please reach out. It won’t just help me — it will help our whole community of applicants, lawyers, agents and partners working toward better immigration outcomes.

Because when we get the information right, we give people their future back.

 

Section 1: Understanding the Partner Visa Framework

The Australian partner visa program is designed to keep couples together where one person is an Australian citizen, permanent resident, or eligible New Zealand citizen, and the other is not.

There are two main processing pathways:

A. Onshore Partner Visa – Subclass 820/801

This is for couples who are both in Australia.

  • You apply while you’re in Australia
  • You usually get a Bridging Visa while your application is processed
  • After two years, you may be eligible for permanent residency via subclass 801

 

B. Offshore Partner Visa – Subclass 309/100

This is for couples applying from outside Australia.

  • The applicant must be outside Australia at the time of application
  • They receive subclass 309 (temporary) first
  • After two years, you may be eligible for permanent residency via subclass 100 (permanent)

Both streams involve a two-stage process, and both require a significant amount of evidence, time, and patience.

 

Section 2: What “De Facto” Really Means in Australian Migration Law

The word “de facto” gets thrown around a lot, but in immigration law, it has a specific meaning — and simply living together isn’t enough.

You’re in a de facto relationship if:

  • You are not married to each other
  • You are not related by family
  • You live together (or have lived together) on a genuine domestic basis
  • You are in a mutual commitment to a shared life, to the exclusion of all others

Many couples assume sharing a house equals de facto. Not necessarily. If you’re just flatmates, or there’s no financial or emotional interdependence, you won’t qualify.

On the other hand, some couples who don’t live together full-time — due to FIFO work, military service, or other reasons — may still meet the definition if they can show a shared life in other ways.

The relationship must also be genuine and continuing at the time of application. This is critical. If you’re separated at the time of lodgement, or if the relationship isn’t real (on paper or in life), your application is likely to fail — and no amount of appeal strategy can undo that.

 

Section 3: The 12-Month Rule and Relationship Registration Workaround

To apply as a de facto partner, you usually need to show that:

  • You’ve lived together for at least 12 months, and
  • That cohabitation occurred immediately before lodging your application.

But there’s a workaround — and it’s a very strategic one.

If you register your relationship with an Australian state or territory that has a formal relationship register, you can skip the 12-month cohabitation requirement.

This is especially useful for:

  • Long-distance couples
  • Couples who’ve only recently moved in together
  • Couples whose living situation makes cohabitation impractical

 

Section 4: Where Can You Register Your Relationship?

Here’s how the states and territories stack up:

✅ Relationship Registration Available:

  • New South Wales
  • Victoria
  • Queensland
  • South Australia
  • Tasmania
  • Australian Capital Territory

These states allow both same-sex and opposite-sex couples to register a relationship, even if they haven’t lived together for a full 12 months.

Registration usually takes 28 days (after a cooling-off period) and requires proof of identity and residence in that state.

 

❌ Registration Not Available:

  • Western Australia
  • Northern Territory

If you live in WA or NT and don’t have 12 months of cohabitation, you may be forced to wait — or move interstate temporarily.

 

Section 5: Same-Sex Couples and the Impact of Marriage

Since December 2017, same-sex marriage has been legal in Australia. That means same-sex couples who are married enjoy the same rights as opposite-sex couples when applying for a partner visa.

If you are married, you do not need to prove 12 months of cohabitation. The marriage itself satisfies the relationship requirement — but only if it’s recognised under Australian law.

If you were married overseas, and the country where you married also recognises same-sex marriage, then your marriage is likely to be recognised here.

However, you still need to prove that your relationship is genuine and continuing — marriage is not a shortcut. The Department will still assess the financial, social, household, and commitment aspects of your relationship.

 

Section 6: Can You Apply Onshore?

Yes — but only if your current visa doesn’t have restrictions.

The onshore partner visa (820/801) is available only if:

  • You are physically in Australia
  • You hold a visa that allows you to make a further application
  • Your visa does not have Condition 8503 – No Further Stay

Many visitors arrive on a subclass 600 tourist visa. Some of those visas come with 8503, which prevents you from lodging another substantive visa while in Australia.

If that’s you, your options are limited:

  • You can apply for a waiver of 8503 — but it’s not guaranteed
  • Or you’ll have to leave Australia and apply from offshore (309/100)

 

Section 7: What Happens After Lodging Onshore?

Once you lodge a valid onshore application:

  • You’ll receive a Bridging Visa A (BVA)
  • That visa activates when your current visa expires
  • You’ll be able to stay lawfully in Australia
  • You’ll usually be granted full work rights
  • You’ll be eligible for Medicare

A key point: work rights only start when the bridging visa becomes active — not while you’re still on a visitor visa. If your visitor visa lasts three months, you may have to wait that long before you can work.

If you need to travel overseas while waiting for your application to be processed, you must apply for a Bridging Visa B (BVB) before leaving — or you risk not being able to return.

 

Section 8: What the Department Wants to See — And What They Don’t

The Department of Home Affairs doesn’t care about how much you love each other. It cares about how well you can prove you live like a couple.

Your application will be assessed across four broad categories:

1. Financial Aspects

You need to show financial interdependence. This might include:

  • A joint bank account that you both actually use
  • Shared rent or mortgage payments
  • Joint bills
  • Car loans, insurance, or other liabilities in both names

A “sleeping” joint account with no real activity won’t help. They want to see real financial blending.

2. Household Aspects

The question here is: are you living together as a couple or just sharing a space?

  • Mail going to the same address
  • Joint household responsibilities (cleaning, cooking, planning)
  • Lease agreements, tenancy contracts

Declarations from others (via Form 888) are useful, but your own statements — well-written and detailed — often make or break the application.

3. Social Aspects

Do your friends and family know you’re together?

  • Photos at social events
  • Wedding invites (as a couple)
  • Holidays or trips
  • Statements from people close to you

Be careful with social media — too much can look performative, too little can raise eyebrows. Be real.

4. Nature of the Commitment

This is the most subjective part, but the most powerful when done well.

  • Your plans for the future
  • How you support each other emotionally and practically
  • Whether you’re listed as beneficiaries on insurance or wills

 

Section 9: My Embedded Evidence Checklist

Here’s what I recommend you gather:

– Joint bank statements with active use
– Shared lease or mortgage documents
– Utility bills and shared service contracts
– Screenshots of meaningful messages or call logs (especially early in the relationship)
– Social media screenshots (if relevant, not spammed)
– Photos — mix of everyday life and special events
– Travel history — flight tickets, hotel bookings, itineraries
– Statutory declarations from both partners
– At least two Form 888s from friends or family
– A relationship certificate (if registered)
– Future plans — housing, children, financial goals

Don’t overwhelm the case officer. Choose quality over quantity. Curate your evidence like a story — beginning, middle, and continuing.

 

Section 10: What If You Separate?

If your relationship ends before your partner visa is granted — whether temporary or permanent — your application is likely to be refused.

If you’ve already been granted a temporary partner visa, you may still be eligible for a permanent visa in certain situations:

  • You and your partner have children together
  • You’ve experienced family violence during the relationship

These are serious cases that require detailed legal support. You must act quickly and carefully.

 

Section 11: What If Your Application Is Refused?

You will usually have access to merits review through the Administrative Review Tribunal (ART).

Key facts:

  • The ART fee is currently around $3,496
  • You must lodge the appeal within a strict deadline
  • A successful appeal will set aside the refusal and send it back to the Department

But — and this is critical — no appeal will fix a defective application lodged with the wrong relationship status.

This brings me to one of the most important principles in Australian migration law:

 

Section 12: The Time Machine Rule (And Why It Matters)

If you’re not in a genuine relationship at the time of application, no amount of time that passes later can save you.

Let me say that again: you can’t backdate a relationship.

You cannot become a de facto couple after applying and hope to patch it up during review. The Tribunal will assess whether you met the legal requirements on the day you lodged the visa. If you didn’t — the case is over.

I call this the Time Machine Rule, because I’ve seen so many people wish they could go back and “fix” the facts. But there is no Time Machine. The law is locked to the moment of application.

Even the best immigration lawyer in the world can’t overcome a fatal defect like that.

 

Section 13: Prospective Marriage Visa vs Partner Visa

Let’s clear this up.

The Prospective Marriage Visa (subclass 300) is for people who are:

  • Engaged to be married
  • Not yet living in a de facto relationship
  • Intend to marry within 9 months of arriving in Australia

This visa is not a workaround for people who don’t qualify for a partner visa.

If the Department assesses that you’re already living together as a de facto couple, they’ll expect you to apply under the 309/100 or 820/801 pathways. Applying for a PMV in that case can backfire.

I’ve seen couples tripped up by this — thinking they can delay the heavy evidence by applying for a PMV, when really, they’re already de facto in the eyes of immigration law.

 

Section 14: Application Fees and Strategic Costs

The Department of Home Affairs charges $9,095 to lodge most partner visa applications. This is payable in full at the time of application.

That fee doesn’t include:

  • Medical examinations
  • National Police Checks
  • Certified translations
  • Legal advice
  • Additional child dependants

It’s one of the most expensive visas in the system — which is why strategy matters so much. A poorly prepared application costs just as much as a perfect one… until it gets refused.

 

Section 15: Permanent Residency and the 5-Year Travel Trap

Getting your permanent partner visa — subclass 801 or 100 — is a major milestone. But don’t let the word “permanent” fool you.

Your permanent visa comes with a five-year travel facility.

That means you can leave and return to Australia freely for five years from the date your PR is granted. But after that five years?

You must apply for a Resident Return Visa (RRV) to travel again.

If you’re overseas when your travel rights expire, you won’t be able to return unless your RRV is granted while you’re still overseas. This has stranded many permanent residents who assumed they could come and go as they pleased.

Plan for this:

  • Track your permanent visa grant date
  • Set a reminder before five years is up
  • If you haven’t applied for citizenship, apply for an RRV before travelling

 

Section 16: Final Thoughts — Why People Trust Me

This process is personal. It’s not just about law or documents — it’s about lives, families, futures.

I’ve been helping couples with partner visas since the 1990s. I’ve seen every version of this system, and I know what works and what doesn’t.

What makes my process different? I tell you the truth. I flag the risks. I help you structure your evidence. And I care deeply about your outcome — because I’ve walked beside people just like you through every step of this journey.

 

Section 17: Ready to Apply?

If you’ve made it this far, you’re serious — and I’d love to help.

You can:

I’ll review your case. I’ll build your strongest possible application. And I’ll do it properly — because your relationship deserves nothing less.

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523 Responses

  1. What about 491 visa seperation?
    If I applied visa for my partner for 491 visa and the visa is granted. After the grant of the visa, the relationship broken down. Do i need to notify immigration department?
    Thanks

  2. 309/100 being processed and the application submitted under defacto basis following relationship registration, what issues can if the couple gets married before 309 is granted? Given the really lengthy processing timeframes, does that mean a couple has to wait years to get married?

      1. Dear Qni,

        Thank you for your message. After submitting your police clearance and medicals for a subclass 461 defacto visa, it’s common to wait several months as the Department of Home Affairs processes these documents. Since it has been two months, you may still be in the processing phase, but it’s worth keeping an eye out for any further requests from the department.

        If you’d like to discuss your specific case or need further guidance on what to expect next, feel free to book a chat with me. We can go over your application timeline in more detail. You can book an appointment here: MyVisa/appointment.

        Regards,
        Nilesh
        Immigration Lawyer & Special Counsel
        MyVisa® Immigration Law Advisory
        http://myvisa.com.au

  3. I’m trying to bring my partner back to Australia so I can work while she visits the vountey and stays with me while we save together. She will not be working as I will be sponsoring her. My question is since I will have Ben in the Philippines with her for over 6 months while not working, how can I go about bringing her back with as little issues ad possible? I have work waiting for me when I get back and will provide my employers contact information plus have an addition sponsor through a family member. We plan on getting married soon so we are still trying to work out the best way to fo this. Any advice please in best way to do this. Any help much appreciated. Please feel free to email me this is causing a lot of stress lately

  4. Hi
    My daughter and her American partner have a partner/defacto visa. They are in the process of getting a residential visa (which is taking forever). However they are about to go back to America for a holiday. Does he need a specific visa to get back into Australia? I have read story’s of people with Australian visas not being let back in.

  5. Hello sir ,
    I m from India
    I Get 190 Nsw visa invitations with my wife both. But now I separated from my wife and not getting divorces , visa officers asking PCC OF MY WIFE BUT UNABLE TO PROVIDE ,
    HER PCC CERTIFICATE, can I tell to immi department my situation does I get visa ??

  6. Hi,
    My partner and I have a registered de facto relationship in NSW. I am Australian, my partner is from Indonesia and we have applied for an 801 partner visa (temporary granted).

    My question is, with the recent changes to laws in Indonesia, would our de facto relationship be recognised in Indonesia allowing us to live/stay together there)? I understand the laws regarding unmarried couples living together are not yet in effect.

  7. Hii
    Is it necessary to be australia citizen .
    And what’s the processing time for de facto relationship visa .
    Thank you

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