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De Facto Partner Visa Australia – The Definitive Guide by Nilesh Nandan

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Introduction: Why This Guide Exists

After decades of helping thousands of couples apply for partner visas — across every relationship type, background, and visa complication — I’ve learned one hard truth: most people don’t fully understand what they’re walking into. And that’s not their fault. The process is complex, the stakes are high, and the rules aren’t always clear. But getting it wrong can cost more than just time and money. It can cost your future together.

This guide is for couples who are trying to stay together in Australia through the de facto partner visa process. Whether you’re same-sex or opposite-sex, married or unmarried, living together or long distance — this is your roadmap. It’s written in plain English and built on more than 25 years of experience advising on real cases, in real-life situations.

We’ll cover the key questions you probably already have — and more importantly, I’ll answer the ones you didn’t even know to ask.

I want this to be the most accurate, up-to-date, and useful guide available. So if you come across anything in this article that needs clarification or updating, please reach out. It won’t just help me — it will help our whole community of applicants, lawyers, agents and partners working toward better immigration outcomes.

Because when we get the information right, we give people their future back.

 

Section 1: Understanding the Partner Visa Framework

The Australian partner visa program is designed to keep couples together where one person is an Australian citizen, permanent resident, or eligible New Zealand citizen, and the other is not.

There are two main processing pathways:

A. Onshore Partner Visa – Subclass 820/801

This is for couples who are both in Australia.

  • You apply while you’re in Australia
  • You usually get a Bridging Visa while your application is processed
  • After two years, you may be eligible for permanent residency via subclass 801

 

B. Offshore Partner Visa – Subclass 309/100

This is for couples applying from outside Australia.

  • The applicant must be outside Australia at the time of application
  • They receive subclass 309 (temporary) first
  • After two years, you may be eligible for permanent residency via subclass 100 (permanent)

Both streams involve a two-stage process, and both require a significant amount of evidence, time, and patience.

 

Section 2: What “De Facto” Really Means in Australian Migration Law

The word “de facto” gets thrown around a lot, but in immigration law, it has a specific meaning — and simply living together isn’t enough.

You’re in a de facto relationship if:

  • You are not married to each other
  • You are not related by family
  • You live together (or have lived together) on a genuine domestic basis
  • You are in a mutual commitment to a shared life, to the exclusion of all others

Many couples assume sharing a house equals de facto. Not necessarily. If you’re just flatmates, or there’s no financial or emotional interdependence, you won’t qualify.

On the other hand, some couples who don’t live together full-time — due to FIFO work, military service, or other reasons — may still meet the definition if they can show a shared life in other ways.

The relationship must also be genuine and continuing at the time of application. This is critical. If you’re separated at the time of lodgement, or if the relationship isn’t real (on paper or in life), your application is likely to fail — and no amount of appeal strategy can undo that.

 

Section 3: The 12-Month Rule and Relationship Registration Workaround

To apply as a de facto partner, you usually need to show that:

  • You’ve lived together for at least 12 months, and
  • That cohabitation occurred immediately before lodging your application.

But there’s a workaround — and it’s a very strategic one.

If you register your relationship with an Australian state or territory that has a formal relationship register, you can skip the 12-month cohabitation requirement.

This is especially useful for:

  • Long-distance couples
  • Couples who’ve only recently moved in together
  • Couples whose living situation makes cohabitation impractical

 

Section 4: Where Can You Register Your Relationship?

Here’s how the states and territories stack up:

✅ Relationship Registration Available:

  • New South Wales
  • Victoria
  • Queensland
  • South Australia
  • Tasmania
  • Australian Capital Territory

These states allow both same-sex and opposite-sex couples to register a relationship, even if they haven’t lived together for a full 12 months.

Registration usually takes 28 days (after a cooling-off period) and requires proof of identity and residence in that state.

 

❌ Registration Not Available:

  • Western Australia
  • Northern Territory

If you live in WA or NT and don’t have 12 months of cohabitation, you may be forced to wait — or move interstate temporarily.

 

Section 5: Same-Sex Couples and the Impact of Marriage

Since December 2017, same-sex marriage has been legal in Australia. That means same-sex couples who are married enjoy the same rights as opposite-sex couples when applying for a partner visa.

If you are married, you do not need to prove 12 months of cohabitation. The marriage itself satisfies the relationship requirement — but only if it’s recognised under Australian law.

If you were married overseas, and the country where you married also recognises same-sex marriage, then your marriage is likely to be recognised here.

However, you still need to prove that your relationship is genuine and continuing — marriage is not a shortcut. The Department will still assess the financial, social, household, and commitment aspects of your relationship.

 

Section 6: Can You Apply Onshore?

Yes — but only if your current visa doesn’t have restrictions.

The onshore partner visa (820/801) is available only if:

  • You are physically in Australia
  • You hold a visa that allows you to make a further application
  • Your visa does not have Condition 8503 – No Further Stay

Many visitors arrive on a subclass 600 tourist visa. Some of those visas come with 8503, which prevents you from lodging another substantive visa while in Australia.

If that’s you, your options are limited:

  • You can apply for a waiver of 8503 — but it’s not guaranteed
  • Or you’ll have to leave Australia and apply from offshore (309/100)

 

Section 7: What Happens After Lodging Onshore?

Once you lodge a valid onshore application:

  • You’ll receive a Bridging Visa A (BVA)
  • That visa activates when your current visa expires
  • You’ll be able to stay lawfully in Australia
  • You’ll usually be granted full work rights
  • You’ll be eligible for Medicare

A key point: work rights only start when the bridging visa becomes active — not while you’re still on a visitor visa. If your visitor visa lasts three months, you may have to wait that long before you can work.

If you need to travel overseas while waiting for your application to be processed, you must apply for a Bridging Visa B (BVB) before leaving — or you risk not being able to return.

 

Section 8: What the Department Wants to See — And What They Don’t

The Department of Home Affairs doesn’t care about how much you love each other. It cares about how well you can prove you live like a couple.

Your application will be assessed across four broad categories:

1. Financial Aspects

You need to show financial interdependence. This might include:

  • A joint bank account that you both actually use
  • Shared rent or mortgage payments
  • Joint bills
  • Car loans, insurance, or other liabilities in both names

A “sleeping” joint account with no real activity won’t help. They want to see real financial blending.

2. Household Aspects

The question here is: are you living together as a couple or just sharing a space?

  • Mail going to the same address
  • Joint household responsibilities (cleaning, cooking, planning)
  • Lease agreements, tenancy contracts

Declarations from others (via Form 888) are useful, but your own statements — well-written and detailed — often make or break the application.

3. Social Aspects

Do your friends and family know you’re together?

  • Photos at social events
  • Wedding invites (as a couple)
  • Holidays or trips
  • Statements from people close to you

Be careful with social media — too much can look performative, too little can raise eyebrows. Be real.

4. Nature of the Commitment

This is the most subjective part, but the most powerful when done well.

  • Your plans for the future
  • How you support each other emotionally and practically
  • Whether you’re listed as beneficiaries on insurance or wills

 

Section 9: My Embedded Evidence Checklist

Here’s what I recommend you gather:

– Joint bank statements with active use
– Shared lease or mortgage documents
– Utility bills and shared service contracts
– Screenshots of meaningful messages or call logs (especially early in the relationship)
– Social media screenshots (if relevant, not spammed)
– Photos — mix of everyday life and special events
– Travel history — flight tickets, hotel bookings, itineraries
– Statutory declarations from both partners
– At least two Form 888s from friends or family
– A relationship certificate (if registered)
– Future plans — housing, children, financial goals

Don’t overwhelm the case officer. Choose quality over quantity. Curate your evidence like a story — beginning, middle, and continuing.

 

Section 10: What If You Separate?

If your relationship ends before your partner visa is granted — whether temporary or permanent — your application is likely to be refused.

If you’ve already been granted a temporary partner visa, you may still be eligible for a permanent visa in certain situations:

  • You and your partner have children together
  • You’ve experienced family violence during the relationship

These are serious cases that require detailed legal support. You must act quickly and carefully.

 

Section 11: What If Your Application Is Refused?

You will usually have access to merits review through the Administrative Review Tribunal (ART).

Key facts:

  • The ART fee is currently around $3,496
  • You must lodge the appeal within a strict deadline
  • A successful appeal will set aside the refusal and send it back to the Department

But — and this is critical — no appeal will fix a defective application lodged with the wrong relationship status.

This brings me to one of the most important principles in Australian migration law:

 

Section 12: The Time Machine Rule (And Why It Matters)

If you’re not in a genuine relationship at the time of application, no amount of time that passes later can save you.

Let me say that again: you can’t backdate a relationship.

You cannot become a de facto couple after applying and hope to patch it up during review. The Tribunal will assess whether you met the legal requirements on the day you lodged the visa. If you didn’t — the case is over.

I call this the Time Machine Rule, because I’ve seen so many people wish they could go back and “fix” the facts. But there is no Time Machine. The law is locked to the moment of application.

Even the best immigration lawyer in the world can’t overcome a fatal defect like that.

 

Section 13: Prospective Marriage Visa vs Partner Visa

Let’s clear this up.

The Prospective Marriage Visa (subclass 300) is for people who are:

  • Engaged to be married
  • Not yet living in a de facto relationship
  • Intend to marry within 9 months of arriving in Australia

This visa is not a workaround for people who don’t qualify for a partner visa.

If the Department assesses that you’re already living together as a de facto couple, they’ll expect you to apply under the 309/100 or 820/801 pathways. Applying for a PMV in that case can backfire.

I’ve seen couples tripped up by this — thinking they can delay the heavy evidence by applying for a PMV, when really, they’re already de facto in the eyes of immigration law.

 

Section 14: Application Fees and Strategic Costs

The Department of Home Affairs charges $9,095 to lodge most partner visa applications. This is payable in full at the time of application.

That fee doesn’t include:

  • Medical examinations
  • National Police Checks
  • Certified translations
  • Legal advice
  • Additional child dependants

It’s one of the most expensive visas in the system — which is why strategy matters so much. A poorly prepared application costs just as much as a perfect one… until it gets refused.

 

Section 15: Permanent Residency and the 5-Year Travel Trap

Getting your permanent partner visa — subclass 801 or 100 — is a major milestone. But don’t let the word “permanent” fool you.

Your permanent visa comes with a five-year travel facility.

That means you can leave and return to Australia freely for five years from the date your PR is granted. But after that five years?

You must apply for a Resident Return Visa (RRV) to travel again.

If you’re overseas when your travel rights expire, you won’t be able to return unless your RRV is granted while you’re still overseas. This has stranded many permanent residents who assumed they could come and go as they pleased.

Plan for this:

  • Track your permanent visa grant date
  • Set a reminder before five years is up
  • If you haven’t applied for citizenship, apply for an RRV before travelling

 

Section 16: Final Thoughts — Why People Trust Me

This process is personal. It’s not just about law or documents — it’s about lives, families, futures.

I’ve been helping couples with partner visas since the 1990s. I’ve seen every version of this system, and I know what works and what doesn’t.

What makes my process different? I tell you the truth. I flag the risks. I help you structure your evidence. And I care deeply about your outcome — because I’ve walked beside people just like you through every step of this journey.

 

Section 17: Ready to Apply?

If you’ve made it this far, you’re serious — and I’d love to help.

You can:

I’ll review your case. I’ll build your strongest possible application. And I’ll do it properly — because your relationship deserves nothing less.

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523 Responses

  1. I’m a defacto partner from philipines
    My partner will be the student
    I was only highschool graduate but i got certification for overseas jobs like electrical and GMAW
    Is there a chance that my visa been approve?

  2. Hi thank you this is quite informative.
    Just wondering after two years of my 820 application, is it any deadline for applying 801? They have notified me since December, however, we both too busy to complete all the collecting evidence at moment.

  3. Hi Nilesh,
    My Spanish partner and I are looking to apply for his visa soon.
    My question is focused on the finance section as we met and lived in China together (together 2 years in march). Due to living in china, we have limited documentation for finances and we tended to keep track of spending & expenses through an app. Is this an area of concern? How can we address this in the application.

    With thanks,
    Amber

  4. Hi, me and my partner are planning to apply for pr on next month. Current our visa is 482 tss and my partner is the main applicant but I have overseas travel plan for 3 months myself after applying so just wondering is it still able to travel myself and Is being separated for a while a problem with visa?

  5. Hello,

    My partner and I are going to make a visa application under the New Zealand Citizen Family Relationship visa by providing evidence that we are in a de facto relationship.

    We have been together for five years, should we provide evidence across the five years or just the last two? My initial thoughts were to provide evidence across the five years but provide more detailed evidence of the last two where we have lived together.

    Moreover, as we live in one of our family houses we don’t necessarily have bills addressed to us or a rental agreement, how do you think we should address this in our application? We have a joint bank account, evidence of packages being delivered to one address, as well as evidence of commuting to and from one address – do you think this would be enough to satisfy the criteria?

    Best wishes,
    Sophie

  6. Me and my Girlfriend are in De Facto Relationship since 2018, she just recently apply for visa 190 in WA and did not declare me as defacto for more points, On December 18,2022 she got her visa granted in just 1month. We are planning to lodge a Partner Visa on Shore on July because my TV is expiring on July 8 2023. Will it cause a problem for us because she didn’t declare it on her visa application.

  7. Hi Sir,

    Thank you for sharing important and helpful insights in your article! May you be blessed.

    I am currently a visitor (subclass 600) holder and processing De Facto Partner (820) Visa, onshore Australia so I can work (BVA) and live with my partner who is an Australian citizen by birth. I have minor dependent children from previous relationship who will be declared as migrating with me.

    The concern: We initially plan to bring my minor dependent children to Australia through international student visa; whilst waiting for the primary substantive visa (i.e. my partner visa) approval which may take around 24 months. However, we were informed that we cannot lodge student visa application whilst the children have on-going application as dependent under my Partner Visa. Is this true? If yes, please give advise as to how to best navigate this. Being away from minor children for long periods is not not an option any parent would choose. I’m hoping that Australia, being a family centred country, offers a solution to this kind of circumstance.

    Thank you so much, Nilesh. Have a wonderful holiday with your loved ones!

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